Charity Ball…now what?
An Open Letter to Student council
The roar of Charity Ball always comes with a deafening wake from our very own Student Council. For two months, we spend every second scrolling through social media, every morning announcements, and every dollar from our paycheck supporting Enloe Charity Ball, and by proxy, Enloe Student Council. We fawn over the greatness of these student leaders and show them unwavering support as they raise thousands of dollars for a brand new charity of their choosing each and every year. Then, the culmination of our enthusiasm, Charity Ball. Students walk through the doors of Marbles Kids Museum, adorned in bright jewelry, stunning gowns, and drip from head to toe. Cameras flash, and students dance as though tomorrow will never come. After hours of entertainment, the music dies down, and the check is revealed. Our five pristine student leaders, deemed “the big five” hold it above their heads at the top of the staircase, while students below upload the big reveal to the social media platform of their choosing, with hashtags such as #howevermuchmoneyweraised, #bigdub #eaglewin. By 10 pm social media is flooded with dozens of photos, and the student body spends the next two days basking in the glory of another highly successful Charity Ball.
For upwards of three months, the Student Council works tirelessly in support of their given cause; whether it be food insecurity, autism awareness or intergenerational poverty, while organizing a stellar dance for the student body. For 14 weeks of the year, Enloe gains a new rep- within the Raleigh area and within the student’s mindset. This group of teenagers becomes a beacon of hope for a better future- and with that, comes an insane level of pressure they must carry during Charity Ball. From staying after school for hours on end, volunteering at the charities on weekends, even posting graphics on their personal social media accounts, the work of Charity Ball seems to become a burden for many students, who already have homework and activities to account for in their daily lives. It makes sense that after a Charity Ball, there is a notable lul from the Student Council. No longer are we accustomed to the Stuco graphics on social media, or the constant reminders to buy your ticket, but rather a deafening silence from our so-called “student leaders”.
In no way am I trying to diminish the accomplishments of Student Council. Everyone agrees that stuco has done so much for the community, and we truly do admire you for that. But as each year goes by, it’s becoming increasingly difficult to rally around a cause for a different charity when it feels as though our own student body is in shambles- physically and mentally.
Every day, we see bathrooms without stall doors, water fountains that don’t work. Teachers without projectors, students without lunches, the list goes on and on. It’s becoming increasingly difficult to be proud of our schools while seeing such notable problems within our very walls.
If we dedicated a fraction of what we put into other organizations into our own school, it would go so very far. The Student Council has proved its stellar fundraising and advocacy abilities time and time again. From 50,000 dollars to 200,000 dollars, we know that Student Council is a force to be reckoned with, one that has had an immeasurable influence on the Raleigh community.
Make sure your home is in order before going to pour money, energy, and resources into others. By making sure Enloe is up to a liveable standard, the student body will become even more invested and excited in giving back to other organizations. For example, if we spent even just one-year raising money for Enloe, and raised a fraction of the money we’ve raised for other organizations in the area, we could update our restrooms, fix our water fountains. We could afford laptops for all students in the classroom, not only ten. We could lower the price of parking, so more students are able to safely park on campus. We could create spaces for underclassmen to enjoy lunch, rather than sitting on the floor of the wet gym lobby or being forced into the crowded cafeteria. These issues have been brushed under the rug for years, but are becoming increasingly worse as time passes and the Enloe student population increases- we must recognize that our current resources are no longer reaching student or teacher demand.
It isn’t only about the money, -if you just put some of the energy you give to these charities into the school, it would go so far. Advocate for better student counselor relations. Push for longer lunch periods so students aren’t speeding in 25’s just to get to class on time. Make it easier for Seniors to get sick days without risking their exemptions. Plan activities of substance for the Senior class, rather than useless tik tok competitions and poster decorating. Some are going to argue that this isn’t the job of the Student Council, it doesn’t fall under their jurisdiction, and if you want these things so bad, just do it yourself. The reality of the situation is that the general student population does not have the same structural integrity, reputation, or resources as Student Council. Student Council was formed for the purpose of serving the student body, but they seem to stray further from that purpose each and every year.
Some will claim that the reason why Charity Ball is so successful is due to the organization its supporting, and that donors will have less incentive to give money if it’s “just” for a school. I would point out two things, primarily, is that I am not calling upon Student Council to raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for the school, but rather the amount necessary to allow students to feel safe, clean, and comfortable within the school setting. Secondly, many schools across the county, such as Broughton, Knightdale, and East Wake, have all experienced success in fundraising for their schools, allowing them to support the arts and athletics, senior fees for students, to cap and gown costs.
What I call upon is for the Student Council to accept the ability for growth, and accept critique towards bettering their organization. With great power, comes great responsibility, and a small step can make a big difference. If Student Council donated even just dedicated one year in every four to giving back to our own teachers, peers, and mentors, it would have an astounding effect on student moral, academic enjoyment, and pride in our school.
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Clara Femia • Feb 7, 2020 at 1:04 PM
Critiquing Charity Ball is necessary, and it was brave of you to do it so publicly. On top of that, your piece firmly represents what you believe, but remains respectful – something opinion pieces are definitely not required to do.
If someone had written an article like this when I was VP of Service it would have been so easy to take it personally. Charity Ball had such an enormous impact on my life and there was so much pressure involved, that it took several months (years?) of self reflection to consider that it wasn’t a perfect institution, and that, frankly, I needed to get over myself. I can’t imagine how much that’s amplified for people involved with it now. If I could go back, I would work a lot harder to listen to and consider what non-StuCo people had to say. Funnily enough, the only person who regularly criticized me honestly and openly was my friend who was on the Eagle’s Eye staff. She’s still one of my best friends and I trust and value her opinion more than most. Journalists should always hold privileged and powerful people to account, even in high school. It’s scary to go against the tide, but good for you.
Kate • Feb 6, 2020 at 5:23 PM
Critiques like this garner negative attention, but you made some valid points about things that could be improved at Enloe through efforts just like charity ball. I don’t agree in that problems within Enloe and so many other schools are institutional and systematic, a result of a larger problem within public education rather than individual, so I don’t think such a strong critique is completely justified of these students. However, I will say that this article is part of a narrative that will hopefully bring more attention to the fact that young people care and have power to change their schools and communities; something that I think even those satisfied with the way STUCO/Enloe currently are would agree is part of the message of ECB in the first place.
Anon • Feb 6, 2020 at 10:52 AM
For those of you that are readily disagreeing with this essay because the author named circumstances and policies that are outside the jurisdiction of student council, you completely misread the entire purpose of this article. The purpose of this article was to suggest that student council could be doing more for its own community before helping another. For example, unless student council could put on a coat drive to get students coats that do not have them. This does not fall under any specific violations and does not overstep any boundaries. There are limitations to which do the council can accomplish, this is fact. However, does this mean that student council should not pursue any sort of action towards the Enloe community? It sounds like to me that student council is ready to be defensive and make more excuses than to except the fact that they could be doing more and they do not .
Parent • Feb 6, 2020 at 8:17 AM
Bravo for writing this article.
From a Enloe parent perspective, I agree with so many of your points. While Enloe is an amazing school on so many accounts, it clearly lacks some basic necessities that affect the daily wellness of it’s students as stated in your article.
I’m not sure how Charity Ball can address the issues – but you are correct – the money that is made at CB is outstanding, and even a portion could go a long way to address some of the issues you bring up.
I admire and applaud the efforts of ALL Enloe’s volunteers, Students and parents. They work tirelessly to give a Enloe all they can .
Student Council is EXACTLY THAT. (Or should be)
A council that have the interests of their students first and foremost. The Charity Ball is a wonderful Enloe tradition. Giving to a yearly Charity in need is admirable. It brings the Enlie community together for a common goal & you can see excitement and pride. However, it would be wonderful to see some of these funds earmarked for items, upgrades & services to its own students.
While I don’t think the Charity should change it’s mission completely, your points in this article are quite on point.
(As a side note, “upping” the monetary goals every year will eventually lead to a disappointing outcome. It’s just becomes unrealistic. )
Yes, parents and “booster clubs” help raise funds for the different Enloe areas … but as one of those tireless volunteers the past four years, I can say it is a handful of the same parents doing all the work . It would be wonderful to have Student Council events earmark some of their, or have events, funds to help Enloe with the necessities it clearly lacks and that cannot (it will not) be funded in other ways.
Anonymous • Feb 6, 2020 at 1:27 AM
This is not a very well thought out essay. I am an alum and was never on STUCO but this strikes me as shockingly ignorant, entitled, and attention seeking.
I would rather donate STUCOs money to people who really need it than to slightly improve our bathroom stalls. Not to mention, it is the governments responsibility to be taking care of the school, not our job to pay for our own school.
Frankly, it is saddening that our students can do such incredible things and you still find faults or feel that they are not doing enough. Its also ridiculous to compare real problems STUCO tries to solve with silly high school problems like longer lunches and exemptions.
Anonymous • Feb 5, 2020 at 11:26 PM
You leave a lot of holes in your argument, including a significant lack of evidence (ex. “Some will say” isn’t sufficient for a concession in an argumentative essay. You can’t have an opposition without having a source from which the opposition came. Otherwise that’s straw-manning. You are basically defeating your own devil’s advocate, achieving nothing.) You mention that a counterclaim would be that student council doesn’t hold jurisdiction over these issues, yet you make no effort to refute it. You correlate “pride” with the physical quality of the school, which is completely off base. The truth is that stuco fails to represent the student body. Pride in a school whose “student leaders” – as you say – are generally disinterested in serving the school in the first place, cannot be remediated with fundraisers and charity events. Your last claims are for stuco to accept growth and criticism. How is this related to your initial claims for more efforts towards internal school development? When has stuco defied criticism? For a conclusion, it completely distracts from the rest of the article.
Jaquarius Sphinkter • Feb 5, 2020 at 8:46 PM
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Max Yates • Feb 5, 2020 at 6:48 PM
Here’s a counter essay:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Vi4Xz1V8hkDY0vueZjleNyaVghYIzUwfADUDtH64O9M/edit
Will Charis • Feb 5, 2020 at 2:28 PM
Please let us know how much you’ve given and how many voulenteer hours you have out in.
Where you put your time shows us the value
Skye Parks • Feb 5, 2020 at 2:08 PM
I wholeheartedly agree with this essay, and I know I would personally feel much better about giving my money to Charity Ball if the charity I was giving to was my own security in this school and, as selfish as that may sound, I’m sure it speaks for many of my peers as well.
Jake Gordon • Feb 5, 2020 at 1:27 PM
Is this really the hill we’re dying on. That Enloe isn’t at a “livable standard” and that Stuco is self-interested for donating the money instead of keeping it in the school? ECB isn’t a zero sum game where giving funds away inherently hurts enloe. In fact, I’d argue the greatest part of the process is that it creates positive externalities. We all rise up together. 200k to learning together or the southeast raleigh promise is an investment in future enloe students, who will one day be better leaders than we were.
I agree student council can and should do more to engage the entire student body, but this reads like a bad intentioned, loosely argued, and poorly researched hit piece to gain some arbitrary woke points. Arguing that student council should “make lunches longer” or “give seniors more absence exemptions” reads like the platform of a 5th grader’s class president speech: populist solutions that ignore nuance and get cheap applause.
As someone who was deeply involved, I understand I am clearly biased. As much as anyone, I understand the flaws in giving students such a great responsibility. I also understand the beauty in it. Like all organizations, ECB continues to learn and grow, accepting criticism gracefully along the way. However, blurring our the faces of your classmates and writing “Charity Ball… now what” as a cover piece for a student newspaper is not the sort of productive criticism that encourages change.
And personally, I’ll deal with some broken bathroom stall doors any day of the week if it means learning together can subsidize just one more kids preschool cost. I think a lot of people would agree.
Anonymous • Feb 5, 2020 at 11:48 AM
You all got real bold without talking to stuco about the legal restrictions placed on charity ball (where the money can go). Also the policy changes proposed in this article are policies not unique to enloe, that are county wide policies. Putting this pressure on stuco to complete unobtainable actions without discussing what stuco has done for enloe is misleading. This article only further alienates student council from the rest of the school, disregarding the changes in stuco made this year to continue to improve enloe. (ie community council, supporting breakfast club, helping school pride with spirit week and decorations). Putting student council on blast instead of beginning a discussion with the club about possible improvements will never accomplish anything. I’m not attempting to dis value some valid points like the bathrooms (ik they’re a mess). But arts and athletics funding are done by booster clubs, not student council. This article disintegrates the work that student council members actually put in, and putting all of Enloe’s problems on a group of 80 teenagers is cruel. Consider the work for the tasks you’re asking, is it fair to ask for that? Please don’t confuse student leadership with the school board in charge. Thanks.
Tommy Martinez • Feb 5, 2020 at 9:16 AM
damn that was heat.